Thursday, August 16, 2007

Types of Men You Shouldn’t Date

There are certain types of men that you should avoid dating if you are looking for a long and happy relationship.

Don’t date the momma’s boy. They usually live with their mother or a close enough for them to come by whenever they want to. In his mind, you will live up to his mother and he will always compare you to her whether he is verbal about it or not. He will expect you to do all of the things for him his mother does. He will always take his mother’s side in a disagreement. The momma’s boy usually has to talk to his mother several times a day on the phone. Get rid of him by telling him that you hate his mother.

Don’t date the body builder. He usually has a ton of pictures of himself and loves to go to the gym more than being with you. He loves to look at himself in the mirror more than looking at you and he will like the way his body looks more then he likes you. He may even criticize you badly if your body doesn’t look fit and perfect enough for him.

Don’t date the womanizer. You don’t want to spend the time you two are apart wondering if he is with someone else or what he may be doing. You don’t want to date a man that gives too much attention to other women when you two are together. A womanizer can be hard to trust and usually has problems with committing to one person. The usually want to keep their options open.

Don’t date the workaholic. The workaholic is going places career wise but he would be more focused on working than you. He would even cancel dates to go to work or work overtime. His work will always come first and foremost in his life. You will feel like you have to make an appointment to see him and spend time with him. He would even put future plans for you two, such as marriage and kids, on the backburner while he focuses on his very long term career goals. You will feel like his married to his job and you are the mistress. He will be so busy working that you won’t feel included in his life.

Don’t date the grown kid. He is usually very immature and seems like he will never grow up. Don’t waste your time waiting for him to grow up. Some guys have that “peter pan syndrome” where they want to act like a kid forever and never grow up. A lot of these kind of guys may still live with their mother too. They don’t want to get or keep a job or act like a responsible adult. They expect for you to be like their mother and take care of all of their needs, including financially. It is hard to carry a mature and deep conversation with them. You feel like dating an overgrown kid instead of dating a real man.

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